Utopian intimacy
What we learned as children, that one plus one equals two, we know to be false, — one plus one equals One. We even have a word for when you, plus another, equals One. That word, is Love.
Stillness
When words are few...
Silence is comfortable when shared with like-minded. Sometimes the me time we periodically require is not easy to obtain due to Worldly obstacles beyond control. When with our partner, but in need of me time, relax in the comfort of knowing silence is not a loss of connection, rather a transparent way to rejuvenate.
Utopian friendships
There is nothing wrong with having intimate, non-physical friendships with people other than your partner. Intimacy naturally occurs between any people who have a pure, unselfish heart. Individually personalities are extremely unique, making it possible to connect in little ways which you would not with your partner. This is truly exiting, because new discoveries and unique friendships can occur at any moment, offering fun and meaningful breadth to the World around you. Your Utopian relationship with your partner will never be jealous or negatively affected, because your partner whom has a pure heart will always wish for you to discover new connections.
An example of non-Utopian: have you ever felt weird talking with a married person's spouse in front of them, because you sense they're getting jealous of the laughing or joyful connection you're having? Shouldn't be this way. This type of relationship is called jail. Seek the pure Utopian way.
Dance with me — a film by Gabriel Diamond (5min)
Be free, be yourself, and dance like nobody is watching. When individually we're free from the worry of other's judgement, together we fly as one.
Judgement
Criticism, when originating from a pure heart, is an invitation for self-reflection and improvement. A supportive friend or partner with a heart of love, will help elevate you as you journey to a higher level of being. When pride is void, there is no limit to the growth obtainable, when receptive to the constructive criticism of the pure.
It not the World's view of judgement, so it's imperative the giver of the constructive criticism be relaxed in this knowledge, so there is no hesitation or guilt. Judgement does not exist between two people with pure hearts, rather a desire for each to obtain the higher level of connection possible, through self-reflection and growth.
We all have been judged / criticized in the past, by many who's heart was not in the right place, so it takes time to feel safe surrendering yourself to your partner's pure embrace. Take this wonderful new journey slowly, allowing for your partner to understand you are sensitive of their wounds, and wish to help the healing by showing unconditional love.
Once both feel comfortable and safe, the heavenly connection blossoms into the wonderful freedom of being emotionally vulnerable without fear. Two become one — the definition of Utopian love.
Playfulness
Having an environment the inner child feels comfortable in, enables us to feel safe and blossom. By creating a non-judgmental space /energy around your friends or partner, invites them to be themselves in newfound transparency. Funny, free, transparent, and comfortable releasing their inner child.
Enjoy life, release your inner child,
and dance like nobody is watching :-)
Beautiful friendships are intimate, even when non-physical. — video 'We Reunited After 15 Years' by Life Of Riza (9min)
I Got You, Honey (3min)
— Music by Ocie Elliott
Fix You (5Min)
— Fix You by Coldplay. Cover by Fearless Soul & Rachael Schroe
Tenderness
Physical intimacy
A spiritually physical private devotion space, for releasing the inner desire of transparently connecting via surrender. Showing unconditional acceptance of uniqueness; through appreciation, attention, and gratitude. No presence of barriers, judgement, or expectations — just pure awareness and undivided attention. Expressing the deep love forged, born from the culmination of placing attraction of character qualities over the physical attributes.
Truly seeing them.
Being present, letting past negative physical and emotional experiences go — in this way both are new and free to enjoy undiscovered connections, all guilt / shame / fear / & lust free.
Two individual pure hearts with synergized souls, climaxing as one.
Massage
Some enjoy massage as a precursor to intimate experiences, allowing the mind and body to gently familiarize the connection with your partner's body / smell / energy / pace of being.
For those interested, a Utopian massage page has been created. Click below to view.
Bliss...
Positivity
Negativity does not exist in Utopian relationship conversations. Yes, there are World issues / daily challenges, which continually arise, but how couples choose to converse about them, dictates the flow of energy. Handle negative or mundane daily task topics in a non-emotional way, giving only the minimum attention required, so you can move forward onto more important things. Take a little time to let that energy flow behind you, then completely focus on what is in front / important. Worldly tasks and jobs are necessary to survive, but should not negatively affect the meaningful connections you have. The relationship with your partner now, isn't just Earthly, rather Eternal (for more on this, click 'What's next').
Anderson & Brenda (7min)
Spirit Bird — song by Xavier Rudd
"I want to live in this World where this is normal...
a fusion of sensuality and spirituality in it's Devine form."
Elevate each other...
About intimacy (2min)
A visual metaphor about finding contact, connection and intimacy with one-self (by Erica Bertolacci).
Utopian massage
As mentioned previously on this page, massages are a delightful way to bond with your partner— just the thought of a massage positively changes a person's energy. Amazing isn't it? Those whom allow themselves to be still and connect with the beauty & potential of this physical realm, will encounter the peaceful dimension of comfort.
Some have been taught the technical skills of muscle manipulation, but only the Universe and our soul within, can empower us to embrace it's limitless potential. It's not so much about technique, rather the love projected during the act. This removes pressure for perfection, and allows both the giver and receiver to relax. Go with the flow, and release all expectations (this also applies to the sexual realm /
Utopian intimacy). No expectations... just go with the flow.
For expanded content on this, click below.
Massage is not a luxury.
It is a path to a healthier soul,
happier life, and comforted spirit.
Enjoy the pleasure :-)
You taught me what love is...
You didn't have to teach me what love is — you just being you, taught me.
Expanded content on this coming soon.
— ge.life